Yeah, that’s the kind of thing, only I’m not designing it, it’s a retail unit.
There’s a wire on the alarm that the instructions say should be connected to a wire that’s at 12v when the engine is running. It works like this:
When the alarm is told to start the car, it closes three relays, one of which is connected to the accessory position of the ignition switch, to power the car, the second is on the On, or Run position of the switch to power the engine management unit, fuel pump etc, and the third is connected to the non-latching position of the ignition switch, which powers the starter motor.
It will send power to the starter motor for three seconds and then stop. If it senses 12v on it’s “enging running” wire, then it will stop sooner than the 3 seconds, and wont try again (because it worked, the engine is running) If it does not detect the 12v, then it will pause for a moment and then try again.
So if you leave this wire disconnected, it’s a whole mess, the alarm will start the car, then keep trying to start the car to the sounds of a starter motor grinding - ask me how I know 
The safe way is to connect it to a permanant live feed so it thinks the engine is always runing, so it wont cause any damage.
And of course the right way, is to fit it properly!
I did consider the connection that drives the rev counter, because that shows nothing when the engine is stopped or cranking, but moves to 600-800 rpm when the engine ir running, but I assumed that this is an analogue device, and is recieving parhaps just a few volts for a low speed display, and closer to the 12v when at redline; but that’s just a guess.
Anything above ground may be enought for the alarm, I’d test it but I couldnt find a good place to get at that signal but I may try removing the instrument cluster and poking around with a multimeter.
I think I have a printout of the ECU connections somewhere, I’ll go get a coffee and have a good look at it.