Alan - me again. No answer from Robbie yet, but having checked the wiring manual your suspicions appear to be correct.
The ignition switch turns on the main relay (under the bonnet) which in turn switches on the pump relay (in the dash fuse panel) this supplies the fuel pump direct. The main relay also controls the igntion coils (top of the engine) and the fuel injectors.
You have two choices as I see it - the simple route, either make or get a yellow label with “Igntion and fuel pump switch” (black letters) and stick it on top of the steering wheel top cowl above the ignition switch, or - go the full track route and fit an ignition switch and a fuel pump switch in a “highly visible location” and get them clearly marked up. The latter will prove more difficult, unless you start ripping the dash apart to turn the car into a trackday version.
My suggestion? Go to the nearest Electrical wholesaler, who sells ‘Control gear’ and ask them for a 22.5mm Emergency Stop Push (locking type) and fit this on the rear shelf front (between the seats) connecting it into the pump live wire. (an emergency stop push has normally closed contacts) The pump live should be a red/blue You will need to drill a 22.5mm hole in the parcel shelf to do this - remove the carpet and take the shelf right off, you will see what space is available between the front of the shelf and the petrol tank to do this. Obviously you will also have to cut a similar hole in the carpet (ouch). With the stop push, you should be able to buy either a 60mm round BLANK yellow label, or an oblong one - take this to an engraver, and ask them to engrave “FUEL CUT OFF SWITCH” - which goes between the ‘head’ (outer push) and the panel hole - outside the carpet of course!
Only one thing wrong with this - it may not be highly visible to an outsider, so you could think about mounting the push somewhere more visible, but the label size may be awkward, you may have to compromise on that. Also - if mounting on or near the dash, then you could connect into the pump relay (live) circuit, or the pump live going from the relay. Dash wiring is very difficult to access, especially around the dash fuse panel. If you opt for this version, PM me your email address and I’ll send you a wiring diagram which should help. Better still - connect the push into the main relay coil live feed from the ignition switch, and you have covered all the electrics that matter. You could use a standard toggle switch, but it will be harder for anyone to locate, and more easily switched off while driving, so I would advise against that.
Someone may advise you to fit a battery switch, but as these normally mount on top of the battery, you would need a label outside the boot to identify where the main battery switch is, which could mean a crowbar to the boot in an emergency. If the cars already a write off, then you may not care, but you would be hoping you can either pull the boot release, or they just happen to have a crowbar in their coat pocket - - - - -
NOTE: the usual ‘rider’ covers, this assumes you know what you are doing, and if anything goes wrong - don’t blame me!