Birthday plan... for cure my loneliness

Also, the established rescue centres are acting out of the best interests of the animal with their onerous requirements. It seems a lot of their dogs these days are dogs with various problems, medical or behavioural. Dog homes here seem to be full of problem Staffies, or some old dog on the brink of death. Or Greyhounds, such as those rescued at Heathrow, on their way to China to be used for food (retired Greyhound scam; the dogs were meant to be put down).

I have a bit of a strong bias against Bull Terriers and their derivatives. Some might think that’s unreasonable, but its borne out of personal experience. Its a breed I wouldn’t be too fussed if it was neutered into extinction.

I also have strong views about puppy farms; these people selling dogs. Friends have adopted survivors of puppy farms, and these are pretty messed up dogs; messed up insides (too many littlers), frequently near blind, and mostly missing all their teeth (extensive infection, due to poorcare, leading to all the teeth having to be taken out). Dog breeding is a regulated activity, but I suspect a lot is illicit. I am deeply suspicious of people advertising full grown dogs like labs for next to nothing, usually with some hard luck story about it being a much loved family pet. I don’t buy these stories. Pets aren’t sold off; you find someone you trust, such as a friend or family, to look after it if you can no longer.

My dogs have always been of the Heinz 57 variety. Last described by the vet as a Lurcher, but he was best described as a small dog in a big dog’s body. He lived until approx 17 years, plus or minus 2 years (no idea how old he was when adopted). Requirements were different all those years ago.

Previous, “I” brought two dogs back from the Middle East. Annie was you typical Pariah dog, seen all over the Middle East and Asia, proper feral. Local Oil Police were going to shoot her on Christmas Eve. So she was taken in.

Ben was a European type dog, likely abandoned by an Expat family going home. He was thriving in the desert, hanging out with the local dog pack, untl local kids started lobbing breeze block at the dogs, out of fear. Took him in, but a vet discovered he had stitches in a pad, proof someone had spent money on him before throwing him out of a car window. Its really difficult to be judgemental of these owners; they probably shouldn’t have had a dog in the first place, but contract employment is uncertain, and, at first glance, the issues about repatriating a dog seems onerous (its not). Local dog “rescue centres” are miserable places, most dogs are not adopted, and most will be no longer than a month in the centre…

Both dogs were shipped to the UK, did their time, and ended up living for another 14 years. Since then, such dogs from that particular Middle Eastern country will no longer need t go through quarantine if they have the right papers. Both had a different characters; Annie was a typical street dog, with strong prey instincts, very clever, trust issues and could be very submissive. Ben, being at one time domesticated, was a bit stupid if he caught anything. They didn’t get on with other dogs, and had a strong aversion to anyone in a long dress.

Leading onto another point. Besides the traditional kennels to get a dog from, there are numerous international animal adoption charities, which while they also have home inspections, might have a different view on rehoming. Dogs are typically £400-500 each, bit more if they are from the Middle East on India/Thailand (lots of Alsatian tyes coming from India), to cover costs. Arguably they will get more of a health check before travel, than the fairly minimal checks a pup off Ebay will get here.

There are dogs from Romania, Bulgaria, Greece, Spain. Romanian dogs often seem to have the so-called “funny legs”; big./medium dog bodies, but stubby legs like a Corgi. There are pups, young dogs, old dogs, some in the UK already, others you are having to get on trust. Street dogs will have their own set of behaviours (but they don’t care what you give them to eat), and some might have evidence of traumatic lives (mended legs, cut off ears, branded muzzles) or past skin infections.

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Yep! Much agreement with what you say! All our dogs were “Bitzas” (bits of this and bits of that) which were otherwise known as “mongrels”, but which snobs insisted on calling “cross-breeds” no matter how many “crosses” there were in their genes.

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We have a rescue from Romania - she’s the best dog l’ve had even if she has a few issues - lots of rescues do but nothing patience and kindness can’t sort - l’ve only ever had mongrels, they are generally much healthier than pedigree dogs, particularly designer dogs and there are so many that need homes. There has been an incredible increase in the cost of buying a dog which has led to loads of puppy farms which in turn leads to so many dogs with problems so get a rescue!

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Our dog is a rescue from Hungary. The good thing with smaller rescue charities is that the people running them have closer link to the potential dog adopter than large ones like Dogs Trust. In our case the lady running the charity visited the house, liked the cut of our jib and our dog came to stay - technically she could go back to the charity if circumstances changed such the adoption was no longer in the dog’s best interests as that was the contract between us and the charity. We ended up with a lovely 4 year old no-idea-what-she-is-but-the-epitome-of-dogginess. She had been a pet at one time so very house-trained but then on the streets, accordingly sometimes wary (particularly of men) but otherwise friendly especially with other dogs. Even so it was two years before she would really relax and doze properly with us in the living room, before that she would seek out low alcoves we guess similar to where she had felt safe to sleep before being rescued; probably also why she refuses to go for a walk if it’s dark or raining!
Good luck with your search. It was more than a year after we had to have our previous terrier put to sleep (big C) before we were even ready to look for another dog, and had similar issues to you with the big charities (who nonetheless are doing a worthwhile job).

My son has a rescued Greyhound. She apparently couldn’t make it in the racing world. I have never come across another dog with such a gentle loving nature. So Greyhounds are highly recommended.

They don’t need much walking either. :grinning:

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That’s true. They are very very fast, like cheetahs but don’t have any stamina. As a result they are easily exercised with only moderate walks.

I used to share an office with an enthusiastic Afghan owner. He was full of similar stories about her.

He showed me several photos of the hound, out cold after a very high speed “short walk,” on her back, occupying a whole settee, legs, tail, head and tongue sprawled at all angles; with so much hair she looked like a fluffy throw that had been loosely draped there.

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Hello Ambasize

Surprised to get your ‘Likes’ after so many months [August 2021]

How Are You re Greiving

Any New Pet Yet ?

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Hello. I’m okay I’ve accepted it now. And no, no animals. Price of dogs has sky rocketed and rescues won’t help me. And tbh I don’t think I’m there yet.

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Get the 27th Feb in your diary M8. There is an Autosolo near you at Curborough Should be loads of MX5’s competing ( I’m there lol). Go and have a day out and watch some complete loonies having a great time. Should be fun :wink:

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When I Lost My Last Cocker ‘Before His Time’ in 2015 …It Was a Physical Pain…Like Some Giant Claw Had Reached into my Body and Gripped Hold of My Heart and Tried to Pull It Out
Even When I Think of Him Now…I Get the Same Feeling…But Not So Severe

Takes Time

I Know At My Age My Next Cocker Will Be My Last and After 40 old years of Cocker Ownership…I Know Exactly What I Want

BUT NOT AT THOSE PRICES !!!

Meanwhile…2015 Rescue Cat [Urgent Replacement] is now 10 yrs and Mellowing Nicely re Coming for Cuddles and Understanding Instructions Like ‘No’ !

Bless Her …But …She’s No Dawg !

Guess What I’m Saying Ambasize…is…Wait !!

Trust Your Judgement and Wait…Until Both Your Heart and Your Head Finking is Lining Up re New Dawg

Meanwhile…There is Your Other Pride & Joy…the MX5

Hope this Helps Somehow & Kindest

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Hi Ambersize. It may be interesting to also look at some of the events shown in the link below. It may be that you will meet like minded women and make some new friends.

Women only motorcycle events growing in popularity | Biker & Bike (bikerandbike.co.uk)

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I have to wait, it just feel right at this present time.
I know my time will come and everything will line up for me and I’ll find another soul to look after.
Sorry to hear of yours, they just don’t last long enough and it isn’t fair.

Once my bike is back on the road, as I had abit of an accident so it isn’t road worthy atm.
But thank you for that :slightly_smiling_face:

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Not Fair…But Unless U Invest in a Tortoise…Most Pets Will Depart Before Us !

Hey…Not So Bad My End !

Life Expectancy of Cockers about 15 Yrs

First Cocker: Rescue…Serious Health & Behavioural Issues…Got Him to 14.5 yrs
Second Cocker: Heart Murmur Diagnosed Aged 5 yrs…Got Him Through to 14.75 yrs
Third Cocker: [Benefit of Hindsight…Puppy Farm?]…Fast & Malignant Cancer…11.5 yrs
Forth Cocker: ‘Before His Time’ [What Did I Miss …Guilt]

World Been Way Crazy For Some Time for Everyone

Hopefully Settling Down Now ???

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It’s a huge shame they ar not here long enough I’d love to have all my babies back tbh.
And all good just plodding along in life… nothing to report tbh.
Will be down caffeine n machine sat. That’s about it

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I am guessing (hoping) you are ok, what happened to the bike?!

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I am okay thank you.
Was riding down a country lane and a car overtook another car in a blind bend. I slammed my brakes and lost the back end. I guess you can imagine damage.

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Glad you weren’t injured badly. Hope the bike soon up, back together and running.

Have you heard of Maria Costello MBE. TT rider. Met her several times a while ago at races. Look her up
Great lady - and ambassador for women on bikes. Has her own website

Also hope you soon find another soul to help you on your journey

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