I don’t see a lot of difference between handling a phone (illegal) and handsfree, besides a government has declared one use to be illegal and the other, for the moment, legal.
My cars are all old, so I don’t have anything like that. NDs I think, and I suspect most owners take advantage of the hands free installation, despite that being as dangerous and distracting.
I’m pretty sure the other driver didn’t mean hit a car, and it was basically a mistake. Move on. This is when your legal cover included in your insurance kicks it. Gets the car fixed, according yo your schedule, with as few calls as needed. Let your insurers get that going, pay the excess. Legal cover will then make sure your costs are recovered.
While other driver has been charged, he can still plead not guilty. A police office has no power to put points on a licence, or extract a fine. Thats for the courts.
I was once attached to cars, not any more.
In 2000, my first MX5 was stolen from a MX5 Owners Club meeting. It was found about 30 minutes later on fire. Yeah, I was incredibly upset. I was upset when the police said they knew where the suspects were. They were sitting in a Loyalist pub down the road (Northern Ireland). Then I stopped being upset. I didn’t want any officers hurt over a car.
Within the club, a retired police officer told me of some grisley anecdotes how it used to be. There had been a spate of thefts from cars in a predominantly protestant area. Two kids were caught, from the other “side”. They were taken away and dumped in a Loyalist area. The kids ended up in hospita;, broken limbs. Thefts stopped. The retired officer wasn’t involved, but he was angered how fellow officers had acted.
About the same time, as SAZ9826 was taken, a car thief was found nailed to a farm gate outside of Lisburn. That’s not right. Its just a car.
After the police told me where the smoking wreck was, I was emotional. My MX5 buddies took me to take a pointless look. So there I was kicking 5 bells out of the car at midnight on a country lane, with other blokes in hoodies (it was cold) hanging around. No wonder the locals looked frightened as they cruised by. Probably thought we were paramilitaries extracting a toll.
Looks like your car needs a new back box. They might find more damage when they strip the car down. Hold your breath. In my experience, insisting on a particular repairer just leads to lengthened repair times.
What got me over it was the insurance settlement; I was able to get another car, and make it better.